How can I explain the connection between my nipples and my clit...just can't. Pressure and tightness on my nipples has a direct one way link to my clit. And the more the better, so nipple clamps are perfect. I am sub and like pain more than most but I am not alone and others have used similar words. That said some just like enjoy gentle stimulation and there is a nipple clamp for that as well.
Standard nipple clamps
Mention nipple clamps and most people thing of something like this - either clips with perhaps little screws to adjust the pressure and sometimes with a chain or tweezers with a sliding adjuster. They are generally cheap, easy to find and they do what they say on the tin. A great place to start exploring for less than £10 - the ones on the left are just £3! Actually you can even start exploring with normal wooden or plastic clothes pegs, before taking the plunge, and not spend anything! (Editor - can you keep quiet please and not distract potential customers!)
How to use nipple clamps?
Nipple clamps are incredibly flexible with all sorts of sensations and ways to use in your sexy times. The pain and pleasure can be quite extreme but doesn't have to be - I enjoy sometimes just putting them on myself while all alone and getting a gentle twinge while using a wand or clit sucker. Ditto as a couple they can be a relatively minor addition to vanilla sex - a little step and pretty painless way into a more kinky world. If you haven't tried, just wear a basic nipple clamp during normal sex and you will feel the sensations intensify.
Of course nipple clamps can also be used in a more extreme way - much tighter and as part of a BDSM experience. I enjoy being tied up, gagged, blindfolded, giving up control, feeling pain etc. and having nipple clamps on is a great part of that. I also enjoy just wearing them and having Mr B tighten and push me to my limits in terms of tightness and time they must stay on. The bastard always gives them a little extra twist!
The chain helps in all this of course if you get clamps with a chain. They look wonderful but gentle, or not so gentle, tugs at the chain once the clamps are attached gives a wonderful sharp sensation.
We like to ratchet things up sometimes by using a nipple clamp on my clit. You can use any nipple clamp as a clit clamp but there are some made just for the job with three clips like this nipple to clit tweezer clamp set.
For the more naughty among you, who enjoy threesomes or group sex, how about two ladies being clamped together? One nipple each with a chain connecting or buy two sets and connect both nipples. Then as you both squirm you can feel one another!
Nipple clamps for men
Most of us tend to associate nipple clamps with ladies but we all have nipples so men can enjoy the fun too! Obviously men have smaller nipples generally and not quite the same nipple to clit wiring but nevertheless many men enjoy the pain/pleasure just as much as ladies. So give it a go!
Men can use pretty much anything but clamps that require a bigger erect nipple, like the nipple vices below, are harder to attach to a man than a lady.
Then again there are some specialist nipple clamps just for men like these nipple clamps with scrotum ring. Something different for the man in your life who has everything.
Nipple clamps for beginners - nipple vices or screw clamps?
People often start off with the standard clip type nipple clamps but I think nipple vices or screw nipple clamps are much better. There are lots of designs but they all rely on tightening screws so you can apply very little pressure or make them extremely tight. And they can be adjusted gradually - there is no sudden painful pinch! They look wonderful too like nipple jewellery! The only downside is that not easiest to put on and might need a bit of stimulation to get the nipple nice and proud - Mr Betty loves sucking me before putting these on. Hang on - why did I say this is a downside?!
Nipple clamps for me need to grip tight and with these you can gradually get tighter and tighter. Oh Mr B often likes to give a little extra twist even after I've said stop! 😈
Nipple pegs or Japanese clover clips for extra ouch
Other options for a little more ouch are these stainless steel nipple pegs which really pack a punch (I've got 6 so plenty for lots of nipples and clits) or Japanese clover clips which tighten as the chain is pulled. Both are beautiful works of art as well.
Nipple sticks or Thai pain sticks for something unusual
I've just written a separate blog on these after trying them at the weekend (click here) but these are amazing and something different. Surprised more people don't know about them.
They not exactly beginner level, and definitely not for the faint-hearted, but they are wonderfully ouch - they are called Thai pain sticks for a reason! Nipples go between the two bars and the pressure can be adjusted by sliding the rubber loops along the bars. Mr Betty said it was like playing a musical instrument as my squeals changed as he slid then up and down! :) There is a more naughty pic of them in action in the other blog.
Vibrating or electro nipple clamps for some buzz
There is a whole range of nipple vibrators and many of those come in clamp form. Something different and many still very reasonably priced. There are also electro-stim product ranges including nipple clamps for extra buzz.
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