We had a review recently for a Fleshlight masturbator from a couple who had enjoyed it together. Fleshlights are usually bought by single men so this got us thinking "Are Fleshlights good couples sex toys?" Ditto Tenga, Satisfyer and other brands of male masturbator toys.
What is a couples sex toy?
Lots of sex toy websites have a section for couples but lots of the products are just the standard stuff that a man or lady might buy and use alone - Doxy wands, dildos, vibrators etc. Pretty much any sex toy or BDSM item works for couples play one way or another although some more obvious than others. One of our favourite is a wand massager like a Doxy or cheaper alternative - they are usually categorised as ladies toys for solo play or for couples with the man using on the lady, especially in a BDSM contact, but they work great the other way around too. I love teasing Mr B on the tip of his cock or around his balls and arse with my Le Wand.
A couples sex toy might be defined as something that can only be enjoyed together and is designed for that purpose. Vibrating cock ring, Strap-ons, remote eggs, etc. fit the bill but the most popular sex toys for couples right now seem to be things like the Satisfyer Partner couples vibrator. We've just got the Satisfyer Partner Whale to test out and review and it looks amazing especially for just £24.99! The thin arm fits inside the lady during penetration, with the thicker arm resting on the clit. Both vibrate independently so the lady and the man feel the buzz during sex. Watch this space for more....
Fleshlight as a sex toy for couples
Fleshlights are masturbation toys and no doubt mostly bought by men for solo play. Nothing wrong with that of course, but we think couples might be missing a trick.
A rabbit vibrator, wand or clit sucker is often bought by a lady for solo play but we all know how much fun couples can have with these and Fleshlights are just the same. I love just watching Mr B. play with a masturbation toy solo and I love even more using one on him - controlling the pace and pressure and watching his face squirm with joy.
Fleshights and other masturbators generally come in two forms - classic realistic ones that look like a vagina, and are designed to have a flesh-like feel, and non-realistic that can have all kind of shapes and designs. Fleshlight also has a Fleshlght Girls series modelled on real porn stars that are really popular. The one above is based on Maitland Ward and is one of our big sellers. Personally I prefer the non-realistic style like the Fleshlight Flight Commander Masturbator below, especially for couples, but each to their own.
The other great thing about Fleshlghts is that they make vagina masturbators and anal masturbators. Back to the couple of recently reviewed a Fleshlight, they had used the anal Mia Malkova from the Fleshlight Girls range. Not every lady likes anal and this is a great way for couple to experiment and simulate the feeling. Click and check the review but - "mind blowing - simulates anal sex extremely well. My wife and I enjoyed it immensely as an alternative to actually anal." There is also the Fleshjack Boys range for those men wanting to simulate male anal and those ladies that want to see them try.
Tenga Eggs great for couples
Any masturbation toy is good for couples but we do love the little Tenga Eggs! Lots of people have never heard of Tenga so have a look at our Tenga blog if you want to find more but they have an innovative quirky range of products from Japan focused on masturbation toys. The Tenga Egg is the cheapest and quirkiest of them all! :) Click and browse the range.
The good thing about about Tenga Egg masturbators is that they are thin and fit to the penis a bit like an extremely thick condom. So when I move it up and down it is a bit like a normal hand job and I get the close contact - much more personal than a Fleshlight but still very different and more fun than normal wanking. I love seeing Mr. B's face as I play around with the different positions. I enjoy other silicone type cock sleeves as well but the Tenga Egg is just so much fun and so many to try that are all different! And yes they stretch all the way down the shaft if you are wondering.
Best selling sex toy for couples
Our best selling sex toy is one just for the couples - the Double Penetrating Vibrating Cock Ring with Bunny Teaser. We've sold so many of these and hard to find a better value sex toy for couples. Both get a lot of pleasure and a great way to start small and slowly for those interested in anal or perhaps wanting to try double penetration but not wanting to involve another man :)
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It’s such a turn on for both of us… nothing sexier than pleasuring my man with a fleshlight!! Watching him throw his head back, eyes roll back and his heavy breathing and moaning 🔥🔥🔥 makes me so wet and horny!!!
Thank you for sharing so many male toys as a toy that can be shared ❤️❤️.