The Adventures of Kinky Betty — Swinging

How to excite a sexual partner...or quickly ruin things :) 

We recently had a bit of fun with about twenty swinging friends, ranging from late 20's up to late 50's, going through turn-on's and turn-off's. We thought we'd share the results - it's a pretty liberated group of people but amongst the kink lots of common sense vanilla answers. Guys - what the hell is it with socks in bed?! :)

Before reading more try this yourself....write down 2 or 3 things you find a turn-on and 2 or 3 that are a turn-off. How much do you have in common with a large group of swingers?! 

From it’s humble beginnings at the Hitachi magic wand for normal massage there are now so many wand massagers!  And Doxy is used like Hoover with the brand and the product being intertwined. Just be careful trying a Dyson on your clit or cock although that is an idea.....

A wonderful story from Belle, a great friend from the swinging world, on her journey into swinging and BDSM:

My journey into kink started just over a year ago. Well, I say just over a year ago – that’s when I actually started to do something about thoughts and desires that had been swirling around in my brain for much, much longer than that! Being from a “nice”, “middle class” (i.e. very vanilla!) background, I obviously believed that there was something very wrong with me for wanting to be restrained, spanked, degraded and “forced” - to be honest, even enjoying sex seemed wrong. Being in a long-term, emotionally abusive relationship didn’t help, nor did the fact that I’d been sexually assaulted as a young child.